From what I heard, this was not the only situation with Patrick but I don't want to make this about Patrick., there is also multiple screenshots of MayMay's being toxic against Synergy as a whole.
I personally don't care much for the bullying situation / etc. However Maymay's attitude overall shows he doesn't want to be here, so he's welcome to not be here :). Also, the continuous cancerous attitude he had the forums didn't follow much further away.
I think you're shining way to much light on the Patrick situation and forgetting about the multiple discords talking shit about the community and even things said in his own private discord that we have access to on random accounts that would lead to a cause for immediately saying no to this urban. However, I said I'm not going to vote on the situation, this is an issue between Zim, Jackson, Maymays. So it needs to be approved by them and them alone as it's their decision. I also saw private messages between Chambers/MayMays and discord messages shown that proves to me that Maymays still isn't ready to return, and who's to say the toxic behavior won't start back up. Multiple people who have been given second chances in this community have ended up being banned again... Spooky is a perfect example of this... or Dargon, after exploiting the credit system. Toxic people are toxic and it is how it is.
I wish Maymays the best of luck in his appeal, but this is not the only reason Maymays was banned from the community and you need to realize that. Including ban avoiding, which you know about in multiple synergy discords and the forums.. =/. So anyway that's my 2 cents.