Dude.. Talk about C H A O T I C am I right anyways since I've been BCMD through this I'll give my opinion. -1
To start off there's a LOT of gaps in this appeal but ill just pick at some..
1. This was NOT a "Semi Private discord" it was the Rancor General voice chat that anyone can access
2. Soda MULTIPLE times stated with you in the channel that they were below the age of 18.. To the point you yourself said they were in 8th grade, once again in a open channel with others
3. Please finish the full quote if you are going to mention it, the full quote was "She doesn't know you take it up the ass".. I say this because this WHOLE situation is identical to a similar situation we had last year which caused the person to be perma banned.
Regardless of my vote, these type of situations should have a more consistent punishment so it's not a mess every time... Anyways what you said was wrong absolutely and should have had some sort of punishment, if the higher ups think you did enough time I guess we'll see