Going to be the odd one out but most of y'all don't even know Tessa.
Huge -1 nothing but a toxic individual that tries to manipulate people and get them in trouble, that is something I cannot stand for. Some of us know who this Tessa is and yes, we all know the meme around it too but when you're somebody that tries to sexually exploit somebody in this community and try to use it against them is definitely a no no from me. They never did anything to me in particular but tried to trap me but I don't do this online dating crap like most people do so I didn't fall for it but my other friend did... He got in trouble even know it was Tessa that did the wrong-doing and guess what? He left and never joined again because he didn't feel wanted because everyone jumped on the band wagon to to discriminate his name and drag it in the mud.
That's just my intake on this ordeal but please, try to see past all these deceitful lies.
I'm not sure what pronouns that they want to use so obviously I will write they/them kind of things and not point out any gender roles.